The following is a continuation or actualisation of the unthinkable update and contains mainly fictional elements and is not advisable for sensitive souls and tender hearts! * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * … Continue reading the unthinkable story/ madness 03.18
Today I found this teaching of a buddhist teacher from Bhutan, who tries to explain why it is sometimes so difficult for people who are kind of newbies (like many of us are) to buddhism to understand what it's all about. Sometimes it seems the more we desire to reach a state of mindfulness, insight … Continue reading can we “learn” compassion?
Thanks to Saved From Myself 🙂 Reblogged :
in germany there is a saying: "wir sind die guten" which basically means people with high moral standards, best intentions and politically correct opinions, in other words the "do-gooders". they walk around with the conviction of being honourable members of their community and often their professions and actions seem to prove their impeccable personalities. the … Continue reading why do we need the bad guy
Remember to take care of yourself. You can't pour from an empty cup" And also: You can't offer your best if there's none to give. And of course you are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm! Take care of your self first. Like in the airplane when we … Continue reading the cup is half full
today I found this amazing quote and I like it so much, that I want to share it : should you ever find yourself the victim of other peoples’ bitterness, smallness or insecurities remember: things could be worse: you could be them“ sometimes people can not deal with their problems and look for an outlet … Continue reading things could be worse
Some people say, that anger and frustration might be a strong drive and motivation to achieve important things in life and to take steps to improve ourselves and our lives. But there seems to be a crucial difference between healthy anger and uncontrollable rage that might lead to destructive behaviour and self-destructive tendencies. For me … Continue reading what are you angry about !?
Many of us have lived in relationships that seemed to go down a downward-spiral of frustration, hurting and bitterness. What can we do when all our efforts to solve some of the interpersonal conflicts and some attempts to find better ways of communication turned out to be futile? The situation seems to be hopeless, but … Continue reading what does “no contact” mean?
It is easy to talk about caring for yourself and forgiving the person(s) that hurt you. It is much less easy to implement this intention into reality. Because how am I supposed to know how to care for myself and love myself, if I never really or sufficiently experienced to be cared for and to … Continue reading about self-care and forgiveness